A number of you in my first year here have sat down with me and gone over your funeral plans. I know that someone other than myself was the one to prompt you to do so, but I appreciate that you are taking the initiative. It shows you care about how you will be remembered, and you are providing a role model to others. Far too many people leave such things to their grieving loved ones. What sort of decisions are they going to make on our behalf, at a time when they are so full of stress and pain!
I was listening recently to the NPR program, Marketplace Money with Tess Vigeland, who was interviewing Linda Stern, a financial correspondent for Reuters who recently penned an article entitled, “Lessons from my mother’s money.” Vigeland and Stern offered the advice to listeners to get one’s affairs in order, make sure that papers are ready, providing details to others for what to do in case you have a devastating illness or die, and bank accounts that someone you trust might use in order for your needs to be met while you are incapacitated.
Another portion of the show included Tess and economic editor Chris Farrell were offering advice to a listener who was mired in credit card debt... eighty-five thousand dollars worth. The listener did not begin by announcing the hole he was in. He simply admitted that he and his wife were in a hole, paying more than their monthly minimum on their cards, but that the credit card companies had bumped their annual percentage rates to nineteen percent and above, and now they were challenged to pay even the minimum anymore.
Tess and Chris expressed her concern and offered the twofold suggestion that the debtor – any debtor – should examine whether or not they could pay off their debt in about five years or less, and that if not, they might want to consider bankruptcy.
No matter what, they strongly suggested, the couple should look into credit counseling and see whether their counselor might work out a deal with the credit-issuing banks in order to expedite the payoff of the debt.
The point of Marketplace Money that day was the point of that program every time it airs, and the point of so many other, competent, personal finance radio and TV programs:
- Do not render yourself a victim.
- Or, if either someone else or you yourself have managed to make a victim out of you, then work to turn the tables.
And – tough as it may be for many of us to hear – self-improvement, self-reliance, is the point of just about the entire platforms, of the Republican Party, the Libertarian Party, and many populist movements. With political rhetoric sounding the way it is in the country, lately, we can sometimes forget the fundamental and genuinely good, affirmative bases on which certain groups were built.
That anti-victimhood message is also, incidentally, the same point of every twelve-step program in existence – to recognize that you’ve fallen BUT THAT YOU CAN GET UP! It’s the reason for counseling and spiritual direction and psychoanalysis – to discover the patterns that we have inherited or come to practice, and to DEVELOP NEW, HEALTHY PATTERNS. It’s why it’s so important for us to learn to eat healthily, to exercise regularly.
We cannot afford to be victims. No one can afford to be a victim.
I don’t even refer to people with cancer or HIV or any other debilitating illness they’re trying to shake as victims, if I can avoid it. You see, victims are eventually overwhelmed by their circumstances. Victims suffer or die at the hands of others who are out to get them. And to say that cancer or HIV or any other debilitating illness should create a victim implies that the disease has a personality, the way ancient people used to speak of demons.
Granted, our circumstances may seem overwhelming at times, but it is absurd ever to speak of Christians as defeated. It is contradictory to speak of Christians as victims. To a person, in the case of every disciple, we may have been knocked down, but we’re getting up.
This is the point of the gospel... the good news. Is. That one whom we had assumed to be a victim was actually the victor. And so it is for us.
So, the point of giving, for Jesus, is that the ability to give implies agency; it implies power. The point of giving is to demonstrate that we are not poor, no matter how bleak our situation may appear.
By giving, the oppressed person can assert that he or she is no longer beset by circumstances. By giving, the outcast may announce that she or he cannot be marginalized. By giving and giving and giving again, with full knowledge that what they do may not budge those who seek to ignore them, the weak become strong; the broken attain wholeness; the empty are filled by the abundance of God.
We can do as we do, because we can afford to. Nothing shall be impossible for God, and therefore everything shall be affordable for us.
Somebody might take that wrong, and think that I am saying we should all live opulent lifestyles. I’m not. In fact, the argument is for a simpler lifestyle whose basis is generosity. Look at all Christ says we can afford:
(From Luke 6) 27 Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. 29 If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also; and from anyone who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt. 30 Give to everyone who begs from you; and if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.This is the reason why, this time of year, the Stewardship Committee and I remind us of what may be possible – the step up, the approach to, or the achievement of, the tithe.
34 But love your enemies, do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return. 36 Be merciful, just as your Abba is merciful.
37/38 Do not judge, do not condemn; forgive, and give; for the measure you give will be the measure you get back.
The point of giving is to liberate the disciple from the captivity of victimhood. You cannot believe in Jesus Christ, you cannot find healing in his name, you cannot believe the testimony of the empty tomb, and still imagine yourself a victim!
This is the point of giving, says Jesus. This giving is the action that makes the good news authentic. This is the way we turn the tables on our victimhood. This is the way we turn things around.
The world economy is pathetic right now. Worse than that, it’s scary. Millions of people are in debt; the governments of many countries are on the brink of default; this is the worst economic slump since the Great Depression. It’s making victims of a lot of people.
But that economy is not our economy. That economy is market-based. Our economy is God-based. And God has enabled us to step out from the tombs which once held us captive. We can step up, as our Stewardship Committee representative here has encouraged, and let our giving be a measure of our faith.
Maybe it’s not yet the measure we would have it be. We may have spent differently, invested differently, because of choices we made based on that market economy. That will monetarily effect how we participate in God’s economy.
Things change, though. That’s why we’re here in the church, isn't it. Because things change. Even for the better, things change. Things have changed for us, and we know we can count on things to keep right on changing.
The point of giving and giving and giving endlessly, the way our Abba does it, is so that we may count ourselves blessed – not victims but victors – and know that we will give as we will, because we can afford to.
God has made giving affordable for us. Indeed, we have nothing to lose, based in God’s system. Nothing shall be impossible for God, and therefore everything shall be affordable for us.
Thanks be to God. Amen.