Saturday, November 18, 2023

Bonds Home Historic Status Achieved

I have been in the news, lately, with my new friend Gayle Jones. Links to the news reports – both print and television – are included at the end of this article.

On January 29 of this year, I delivered a sermon[1] which used as an illustration church members Melvin and Thyra Bonds who in 1965 had sued the city of Webster Groves for having changed the zoning around their home from residential to light industrial. The lawsuit ended in 1968 when, after losing on appeal, the Bondses were denied any further appeal or a transfer of the case to the state Supreme Court.

Learning a few weeks after delivering the sermon that the Bondses’ daughter Gayle Jones lives in her childhood home, I sent Gayle a letter along with a copy of my sermon. Shortly afterward, she and I determined that we would seek a protected status for her home, for a number of reasons of historic import:

  • First and foremost, her home was the demonstration model of a 13-unit development called “Marvin Court,” which had been conceived by Bennie Gordon, Jr., in 1955 and marketed specifically to middle-class African Americans in 1956;
  • Mr. Gordon did this at a time when Webster Groves had was seeking to restore and revitalize areas historically owned and occupied by its Black population (North Webster / Webster Heights);
  • In 1957, white neighbors literally said, “Not in my back yard,” in some cases selling their homes that adjoined the development, and threatened Roosevelt Federal Savings & Loan, the lender for the project, with boycott. This caused the financial institution to withdraw its funding going forward and scuttled any further hope for the development; and
  • In 1964, in pursuit of an Urban Renewal Plan established by the city’s Land Clearance for Reclamation Authority in 1960 (shortly after annexing Webster Heights), the City Council rezoned all 13 acres adjoining the Bonds home to the west and the north, including land platted for the Marvin Court development (Bennie Gordon’s Subdivision);
  • Gayle and I wanted to prevent the possible future purchase of the home by an adjoining business and its subsequent rezoning to match properties around it; and, finally,
  • We hoped to affirm her parents’ courage and Bennie Gordon’s vision.

On November 21, the Webster Groves City Council, upon unanimous recommendation of the Historic Preservation Commission, voted to declare 15 Marvin Court as a historic building, for all it represents. Gayle Jones and her son Nathan were presented by Mayor Laura Arnold with a plaque to attach to their home and a framed display of ads and articles about their home.

My personal opinion is that this recognition ought to be just the "tip of the iceberg" along the way toward restorative justice for the residents of an historic neighborhood replaced for the most part by an industrial park... All of those whose homes were cleared away by the City in the name of urban renewal deserve to have their stories told and historic wrongs reversed in their favor. There will be more to come.

LINKS THAT TELL THE STORY 

My Testimony at Oct 11 Historic Preservation Commission Meeting

Webster-Kirkwood Times – Nov 16, 2023 – https://www.timesnewspapers.com/webster-kirkwoodtimes/the-hidden-history-of-webster-groves-15-marvin-court/article_59ac84a8-7f08-11ee-a5d2-0b9c7719e715.html

KMOV – Nov 7, 2023 – https://www.kmov.com/2023/11/08/should-bring-shame-us-city-webster-groves-takes-first-steps-correcting-mid-20th-century-racial-wrongdoing/

KMOV – Oct 18, 2023 – https://www.kmov.com/video/2023/10/18/webster-groves-home-clears-first-hurdle-becoming-historic-site-after-racist-past/

KTVI – Oct 11, 2023 – https://fox2now.com/news/missouri/webster-groves-woman-continues-parents-fight-to-get-historic-status-for-home/

Friday, November 17, 2023

Balancing Act - What is the balance of nostalgia and justice?

 Scriptures
Micah 6:1-8; Matthew 5:1-12 

When I named this message, I called it, “Balancing Act,” because I was thinking about today being our Heritage Sunday[1], and about the temptation I find myself answering when I’m doing genealogical research or just thinking about my grandparents and great-grandparents, to feel purely nostalgic.

It’s not as though things were better, back then, and the problem also isn’t balancing nostalgia with hope. So, what I’m going to say may not have a whole lot to do with that title. (As my friend the Rev. Janice Barnes[2] has told me, the title you give to a sermon in advance is often a placeholder until you can get an actual message together.)

To begin, I want to acknowledge, this morning, that we are a violent people in a violent society wrapped up in a violent world. And I want to say what I believe: that this need not be the condition in which we must, or our children must, or our descendants beyond our children and their loved ones must, live. We live in a violent world, but this world need not remain this way.

It is also simply and plainly true that, to prevent such violence, we will have to get to work. And hard work! Work that infringes upon our comfort, our daily comfort.

Friday, the Memphis Police Department released video of the lethal beating of Tyre Nichols by police officers and the evident compliance of other first responders with the brutality of those officers. Media have played back audio and video of the incident, and it is difficult to argue with the insistence of many Americans that the culture of policing in the United States must be fundamentally changed, so that incidents like this no longer occur. Yes, we have some hard work before us.

Last Sunday, I mentioned two incidents in California of gun violence against multiple people celebrating the Lunar New Year, and yesterday in Los Angeles there was another such incident. In just the first three weeks of 2023 there were 40 mass shootings (shootings in which at least 4 people were shot). Also, an average of 110 Americans die each day because of gun violence. We and all the people of this planet must come to believe genuinely that we cannot successfully solve our problems through force of arms.

No one has said this clearly enough: You do not win by force of arms. You subdue, perhaps, or you tyrannize, or you terrorize. But you do not win. Haiti is besieged from within by gangs. In Myanmar the government outlaws voices of freedom, but those same freedom voices when in power persecuted the Rohingya ethnic group. Holocaust Remembrance Day was this past week, recalling the state-sponsored murder in German-occupied territories of 6 million Jews and Roma and LGBT people during World War II; and somehow, anti-Semitic hate and racism and homophobia and transphobia are on the rise.

And Russia remains intent upon taking over Ukraine.

So you see… This is going to be hard work.

Where shall we begin? Because, you know the problem isn’t just angry people or fearful people or people who will take unfair advantage. There are also problems like poverty and disenfranchisement which so contribute to conditions of violence that they may be identified with violence themselves.

There is a movement among people of faith in Webster Groves not just to ignore red-lining and racial covenants anymore but to get actual legislation passed stating that discrimination is illegal. In Evanston, Illinois, a city in which I served two different churches and attended another, programs are being created and administered today for the sake of restorative justice (call it, reparations) for people of African descent who experienced Jim Crow laws between 1919 and 1969. This justice is available to their descendants if they themselves are no longer living. The City government is funding this municipal initiative through a marijuana sales tax, but there is also an initiative of the Evanston Interfaith Action Council in which churches and synagogues are committing major portions of their endowments, or just making commitments, to a central fund being administered by Black Evanstonians.

Poverty is violence, and economic development can mean healing and restoration.

What does our God require of us?

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.”

What does our God require of us? Where should we begin?

Dare I say, we ought to begin by remembering. Ancient Europeans believed that memory resides in the heart. We’ve put it in the head, but I want to ponder with you for a moment the possibility that your memory is heart-centered. Just rest in that idea for a moment: that the same place prayer comes from, the same place that healing comes from, the same place that will identify for you whether or not you feel whole, is the place where your memories live.

I’m not saying that this is the perfect way to address our problems, but I want to put you in your hearts. I mean, most of us have at least some European blood in us, however it got there, so why not take advantage of that perspective. You know the saying that goes with this: “Home is where the heart is…”


Now, while you’re contemplating that, let me take you a little south from Europe, to a place where people actually have a saying about the importance of remembering in order that we may imagine a generative and productive future. The Akan people of what is now Ghana in West Africa have a concept – sankofa – which is depicted on the cover of this morning’s bulletin. As Cliff Aerie[3] explained in his August edition of last year’s Jazz for the Journey series, sankofa means, “look to the past to inform the future.” This is symbolized by a bird, sometimes flying and looking back over its shoulder. In our depiction, the bird has reached back to take up its egg which will become a new life.

You have to see what’s behind you, in order to decide your most positive direction. Sankofa.

There is so much about Christian faith, and the Jewish faith before it, and the Islamic faith as well, that is centered in remembering. Our major holidays are rooted in studying memories – Passover, Holy Week, Ramadan. The past informs the future for us, by reminding us of the faithfulness of our Creator and Sustainer, our Savior and Redeemer. The Holy One has brought us up out of bondage and given us the word of life. And we are thankful.

One hundred fifty-seven years we have been meeting here in Webster Groves, as this manifestation of the Body of Christ. And practically every year we have sat ourselves down, and we have remembered – William Plant and the Porters and the Martlings and the Helfensteins and the Monroes and the Studleys and the Prehns[4] and Jennie Davis[5] and the Moodys[6], and Dr. Kloss who wrote Our Creed, and Edward Hart[7] and whoever those women were who modeled for Sylvester Annan, the stained glass artist who created our “Sermon on the Mount” window, and Dr. Inglis and the Obatas[8] and Robert Parker[9] and Arno Haack who led the Board of Deacons when the Obatas and Rev. Parker asked to join the church so that this white church didn’t say no. And so many we’ve bade farewell just since I’ve been here – Tremayne and Parker and Morley and Patterson and Davis and so many others who helped us define who we are.

These all remind us why we are as we are. And in the cases of the Obatas and Robert Parker and Jennie Davis Sharp, we have come to recognize people who stood out from the main group but who called us to stand by our principles and follow our Savior’s example of humbleness and humility.

A few months ago, I became acquainted with another such person – Thyra Johnson Bonds, who was a member here from 1957 when she and her husband moved to Webster, until her death in 2005. It was up until the early 1970s that she was active, especially teaching Sunday School. Her daughters Kassandra and Gayle were active too, right up to about 8th Grade.

Mrs. Bonds made her mark on Webster history when she brought suit against the City of Webster Groves. The Bonds had bought their house – a sweet little ranch with a carport – in 1957, in a neighborhood which was on the other side of the tracks from Tuxedo Park. Homes to the east and south of where they built had been popping up for 20 or 30 years. The Bonds, however, had built in the very southeast corner of a 13-acre tract of land slated for “redevelopment.” Now, when the Bonds heard “redevelopment,” they thought what any of us might have thought: that the houses to the north and west of them would be rehabbed or torn down and new houses put in their place.

You see, that 13-acre tract contained a neighborhood about as rundown as any you might ever see in Webster Groves. Directly across Kirkham Avenue from First Baptist Church, the homes there were either owned or rented by low-income African American families and individuals. Many of these homes had no indoor plumbing  (meaning that, yes, there were still housing units in our fair city as late as the mid-1960s with standing privies!). So, yes, redevelopment was needed.

But the City’s idea of redevelopment, flush as it was with new federal Community Redevelopment funds, was not the same as the Bonds. The City’s newly formed Land Clearance for Redevelopment Commission determined to clear out those homes, and the City Planning Commission elected to rezone that entire 13-acre tract from “residential” to “light industrial”… well, all 13 acres, that is, except for that sweet little, brand new ranch home with a carport.

And so, from 1964 through to the end of 1968, Mrs. Bonds and her attorney offered objection after objection, first to the City Council and then to whatever court would hear her, expressing her concern that the value of her property would tank, because what she and Mr. Bonds had imagined for themselves and their daughters – a neighborhood with actual neighbors all around them – had been prevented. She sued, for the sake of recapturing the value of that house.

And she lost. And then she lost on appeal. And finally, she couldn’t get a hearing before the Missouri Supreme Court.

Now that you know about Thyra Bonds, what do you think we might be able to do – as a city, as a church, as individuals – that can take the reality of being Black in Webster Groves, or wherever you may live, and empower restoration? Or is there something like this that we might be doing, individually or together, for the sake of making safe the lives of people of Asian descent in our country? Or of children and youth? Can we actually enable economic development, maybe even make sure that “redevelopment” means the same thing to everyone?

And before someone goes off and says that what I’m doing is preaching politics, remember what we read in Micah – that litany of instances in which God (unbidden!) turned things around for Israel and then asked, “What ought to be required of you?” And then Jesus in Matthew recited a similar litany of vulnerable people whom God is blessing (And I do believe that the unstated comment there from Jesus is, “God is blessing these… if only the world would too!”). Blessed are the poor in spirit; blessed are the peacemakers; blessed are you when you are persecuted and reviled. All of that, I want to believe, he said because he knows how hard our work is going to be – individually and together.

Are we relegated to a future that resembles the past? Or shall we be able to open our theological imaginations, our evangelistic hope, our remembering and expectant hearts, to a new future – a true and faithful future in which we study war and violence no more?

Amen.



[1] The First Congregational Church of Webster Groves was founded on January 31, 1866, by the signing of a covenant by ten residents of the village.

[2] The Rev. Janice Barnes is retired clergy, a former staff member at First Church, and currently an esteemed member of the Congregation.

[3] Director of First Church’s Ministry of Imagination, Creativity, and the Arts (MICA), the Rev. Cliff Aerie is an ordained minister in our denomination, the United Church of Christ. MICA produced a series of musical, worshipful programs in 2022 which were called, “Jazz for the Journey.” It is also the creative force behind our Good Friday Blues services and Jazz Noel.

[4] Some of the church’s founding members.

[5] A First Church member from 1878 to 1883, and first African American schoolmistress of what would become Douglass School in North Webster, Jennie Davis would emigrate to Liberia and become the founder of the Women’s Department of Liberia College. She returned to the United States in 1903, including a stop in Webster Groves, to raise funds for a new, industrial arts education project at Mount Coffee, Liberia. The project was touted by such luminaries of the time as the writers Edward Everett Hale and Pauline Elizabeth Hopkins.

[6] A prominent family of the church, now, for six generations.

[7] Mayor of Webster Groves at the turn of the Twentieth Century, in whose memory the “Sermon on the Mount” window is dedicated. Of the characters depicted in the window, all are female except for Jesus.

[8] A Japanese-American family sponsored by the church, 1943-1945, after being relocated to Webster Groves from the Topaz Mountain internment camp in Utah.

[9] First African American ordained in a Missouri Congregational church, in 1951.

Sunday, January 15, 2023

Memories of Joyce Berger

I am sad to announce the death of our dear sister Joyce Berger, age 97 years and 51 weeks. 

EARLY YEARS
She was the youngest of three daughters born to William & Mabel (Wyatt) Ingram. She grew up in Wellsville, Missouri, where her father was a postal clerk and her mother ran the household. The family moved to the near north side of St. Louis in the late 1930s, where Joyce’s father became a letter carrier and she attended Soldan High School. She married Soldan classmate Robert P. Ferguson, Jr., in 1945. He was a pilot in the Air Corps and Air Force, flying missions in the Pacific theater in WWII and in Korea. During this time, she and their two children – Robert III and Lucia – lived in Michigan, Arizona, and Florida, before Joyce returned permanently to St. Louis with the children.

LIFE IN WEBSTER GROVES
Joyce joined First Church with her second husband Allen on December 11, 1960. The newsletter then, The Word, records the two of them and their son Bob becoming members – Allen and Joyce by letter of transfer from Presbyterian churches nearby.

When she and Allen married, his parents lived in a large house on Mason Avenue in Webster Groves, not far from First Congregational, and the newlyweds were looking for “a neutral church” to be a part of. They had each been attending other churches in Webster, and the great stone church at the top of the hill from his parents’ house intrigued them. Once they were introduced to Dr. Inglis and First Webster, she liked to say, it was an immediate match.

Photo of Allen & Joyce
They had met through mutual friends. Allen was a widower with a daughter Judy who was 5 and twins David and Kathy who were 2 (The children’s mother Helen tragically had died while birthing the twins.). Joyce’s son Bob was 13 by this time, and her daughter Lucia was 12. In setting up their new home, the two parents would adopt each other’s children. 

Allen was a salesman who traveled a lot. Joyce made a career locally with the Republican party. In 1972, she ran the St. Louis County campaign of gubernatorial candidate Christopher “Kit” Bond whose emphasis on government reform was the great attractor for her. When Mr. Bond was unable to attend local campaign events, Joyce went in his place. This, she said, was her favorite job. Her least favorite had been working with the County Election Board, which she said was filled with people who were, in her opinion, “unqualified political appointees.”

Joyce spoke very fondly of the days when Allen taught the 5th and 6th grade boys Sunday School class and she the girls. After a few years, she opted for the 2nd and 3rd graders, and enjoyed that assignment even more.

She was an adult chaperone for the 1968 youth mission trip to Rough Rock, Arizona. She told me that she didn’t particularly like being stationed on the floor in a sleeping bag in front of the exterior door of the girls’ quarters, but Joyce was the preventer of liaisons and other mischief! The work of assisting others and guiding youth in how to do so was very gratifying and made the overnight conditions somewhat excusable. Joyce would quote another parent on one of these excursions who complained that “If I never hear another Beatles song, it will be too soon.” Joyce would laugh at this and said that the other parent was too rough on the Beatles.

She and Allen were fixtures at First Church for as long as they lived. Allen died in 2004 with an untreatable cancer. They were married for almost 44 years.

AT THE ALGONQUIN
Joyce moved from their home on Wilshire Terrace, to The Algonquin apartments across Gore Avenue from the church, in 2013. Not long afterward, she got a new next door neighbor, Jean Tarkington. Jean’s mother, Della Bobbitt, had worked as one of First Church’s cooks in 1950s and 60s, in the days before potluck luncheons and dinners were served here. Jean had fond memories of the church, from helping out her mother as a kitchen assistant. Joyce was fascinated by Jean, who is almost six feet tall with a broad smile and a quiet demeanor. They loved that they had the church in common, even if neither of them had known the other from before.

During their years as neighbors, Jean and Joyce became quite close. In August of 2014, Jean appeared in tears at Joyce’s door. “What’s wrong?” Joyce asked her. “They’re killing our babies!” Jean cried, and Joyce brought her sobbing friend inside and sat her down. She made them some tea, and spent the afternoon listening and finding her heart opening up to concerns she had never even considered. Jean was reacting to the killing of Michael Brown, Jr., and the desecration of his body which lay in the open for four hours in the heat of that summer Saturday in Ferguson. Hostile reaction arose among African Americans and allies across the region; Jean’s response was despair.

“What could I do?” Joyce asked me, when we visited a few days later. “What can I do?” Joyce realized, that day and for the rest of her relationship with Jean, how powerless anyone can feel who has come to recognize that the world’s people cannot afford the distances we’ve poised between ourselves.

One Sunday in late 2017, not long after the announcement of the engagement of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle, Joyce appeared at my office door with a thin package which she said she thought my daughter Gwen ought to have. It wasn’t a Christmas present, she said, but something Joyce had found when out shopping, and the inspiration hit her. Inside, Gwen found a book of paper doll cutouts of the couple which she absolutely cherished. Gwen was 11 at the time, and Mrs. Berger thereafter was one of her favorite adults at church.

It was around this time that Joyce’s attendance began to flag. “It’s hard to get moving in the morning,” she confessed to me. Thus I would come to visit her more often than she would get to worship. 

CAPE ALBEON
Joyce was my first in-person visit since the COVID pandemic began. She moved from The Algonquin to an assisted living setting at Cape Albeon Senior Living, in the spring of 2020. Her friend Jean moved out of The Algonquin at about the same time, to be closer to her daughter in Springfield, Missouri. 

The move came after the pandemic forced lockdowns, but Joyce, as a newcomer, still had to be isolated in her room for two weeks before she could circulate among other residents. Her room was just a few doors down from the residence of church members Carol and Bob McCoy, and Joyce had decided that Cape Albeon would be a good setting for here because Bob and Carol would be living there, too. Carol died in December 2020, however, and Bob moved back to independent living. Prior to his death seven months after Carol’s, Bob would sometimes pop over for a visit, but afterward she was left without any close friends nearby. 

For this reason, she was thankful for other church friends. There had been a time when she played bridge weekly with Janet Fales and Elaine Coe (and another friend she said I wouldn't know), and those friends would still stop over, though minus the bridge. Kay Roush and Marilyn Claggett were dear Friend-to-Friend visitors. Tracey Harris looked her up while doing her Clinical Pastoral Education course at Cape Albeon. Her son David came by about daily; Lucia brought her home for suppers weekly, and the other children were similarly attentive. She always fantasized with David about attending worship, some Sunday, and I would occasionally get voicemail messages from him reporting upcoming weekends when they thought they would try.

Joyce was satisfied with her living situation – “great staff,” she said, “good food, and everything on one level.” She kept bird feeders outside her patio door to watch nature’s activity. “I have it pretty good,” she reflected often.

David called me in February of this year, and reported that his mother wished I would stop by to talk about matters regarding death. It wasn’t the first time I’d visited for this reason. Joyce had asked me over, a couple of times when she was at The Algonquin, with similar requests. “I just need to talk this out,” she would say.

In February, she ventured to say that she was confused about what happens when we die. She said, she thought she agreed with one friend “that heaven isn’t a bunch of little people dancing around on clouds,” as she put it, “but I don’t know what it is.” I stated my opinion to her that anybody who says that they do know what death is, is lying to you. We talked for a little while about God as a great mystery. The theologian Paul Tillich said that God is the Ground of all being, not being itself, not A being, but that Source from which all existence springs. We both said that we felt satisfied by this way of thinking, even if it didn’t concretely answer her questions about death.

“I’ve had a good life,” she would say. There was a way that she inflected this statement that would cause me to think that she maybe was saying she didn’t deserve life to have been as good as it has been. She was troubled by ways in which she felt that she’d failed as a daughter or as a mother, maybe even as a friend. 

When I prayed with her at the end February’s visit, I found myself expressing to God the profound mystery that we experience about the Divine and what the future holds in store, even beyond this life. As I spoke the “Amen,” with tears in her eyes she said, “Thank you. That hit the spot.”

My final visit with Joyce was a couple of weeks ago. I had just presided another church member’s memorial service, and Pastoral Assistant Halley Kim appeared at my door with a note. Joyce’s son Bob had called to inform me that the family was transitioning Joyce to hospice care. I rang him back, and we both shed tears, aware that she was about to know what she had previously only pondered about death and afterlife. He and I were alternately sad for ourselves and joyous for her. I told Bob that I would go to see her, and I did just a few moments later. 

In that call with him, I heard him reflecting the way his mother would, about life and love. Days later I spoke with Lucia and thought I heard Joyce’s voice – the same inflection and cadence. And David and I texted back and forth about those Sunday visits that never quite were able to happen.

Joyce was weak when I got to her room on January 3. She was reclining on the couch, asleep, so I roused her. Her eyes fluttered open, and she smiled to see me. I stayed only about five minutes, until she told me she was ready to take another nap. As I prepared to go, her demeanor suddenly brightened. “Have a great time!” she exclaimed. “Thank you,” I said, “and a happy new year to you.” She replied, “Much love!” and waved ever so slightly. “Love to you too,” I answered and left her to her nap.

There won’t be a memorial service for Joyce, nor a burial. Like Allen, she donated her body to science, and those who benefit academically from her contribution will see that she is honored properly. In the springtime a stonecutter will come and etch her name just below Allen’s on a stone in the churchyard, and her family will gather to make a dedication of that token to her memory. All of us who knew her will carry forward the love and joy, caring and concern, and maybe just a hint of doubt and guilt, to keep us humble as she was.

Peace.